"Take Over Control" - Afrojack feat. Eva Simons
I'm into this song. Now to find this in real life.
For a while now people have been encouraging me to "put myself out there." God, I don't even know what that means anymore. I mean, I go out pretty often so I technically am out there, but I've been told that I have a pretty tough exterior. I usually just focus on those around me and don't assert myself to inviting new people in. What am I a convenience store? I'm at my wit's end with this whole "perception" of me, but I guess it's better than being considered an easy pushover. I just don't get the whole song and dance of dating. This sh*t makes me dizzy. I've never been one to just go with it since I've always been the one to lead, so now I wonder, "What do I do exactly?"
There's been heavy debate over Match.com. Should I or shouldn't I? Sad thing is the only one arguing the "con" side is me. Votes are pretty unanimous to go for it, but the thing is I don't really know what it is I'm going for. Online has never been my strongest suit. Besides blogging, paying bills, and Facebook I'm rarely on it. I love face-to-face interaction like the guy I met at the bar even though it won't go anywhere. I just don't want to lead anyone on and frankly, I feel like it comes off that way with my whole profile visible to strangers. Plus, I'm not that comfortable with change. I know I'm not the type to walk up to a handsome stranger to strike up a conversation and I know rarely will this happen to me considering my initial first impressions. But...online? Has it really come down to this?
I know we live in this day and age. I know it's more common than uncommon. I know it won't hurt to try and to not always expect lies and to be open-minded and to let all this negative energy go. Blah, blah, blah... I know that even when I'm careful, caring, and cautious it doesn't necessarily come back ten-fold. OBVIOUSLY. But...and there goes that BIG BUT again... Am I ready for all of this?
I posted on my status update, "Wishing I could go back in time to date a man who knows how to be a REAL MAN" and boy, did I get a response! 37 comments later, I read how problems still existed in the past, how sometimes if you're expecting bad stuff to happen, they'll happen (how lovely) and my all time favorite, what will real men get from real women? To which my reply was, a woman they actually deserve. This ongoing debate didn't surprise me, but it did help me see more clearly that there's a "Scratch my back, I'll scratch yours" policy going on here. It's just that my whole point with this was to see if I could get my back scratched first. Come on! At least that and that ain't much. I just want someone to show me what they TRULY have to offer so that I can see if it even fits with me and mine before I show them in return. But this exchange has to be equal. Give and take. Compromise.
I want to experience being cared for. Not like taking care of the utility bills and putting food on the table type thing, but the sweet stuff like opening doors, making a plan, walking up to my doorstep with flowers and chocolates in hand to take me to a nice dinner and picking up the tab. The pursuit is intoxicating if done right by someone I actually want to do it. Ladies, we kicked ourselves in the foot with this equality sh*t because chivalry is dead. Romeo, Romeo where for art thou, Romeo? Nowadays, you're lucky if a guy is even considerate to check in, say "I love you" to you on the phone with his friends around, or tell a joke without making your relationship the punch line. Yet, the sweet ones aren't cute and the cute ones are d*cks! And if you get an ugly d*ck like most of what I had to deal with, well you could imagine my frustration. So, after this vent fest I will do what this song said. I'll give someone a chance to take over and hope they don't f@$k it all up! The hard part wouldn't be to deal with a potential mess, it would be to let it happen in order to see how well they'll be able to clean it up.
Lyrics:
Let's go take a ride in your car
I will take the passenger seat
Baby, we don't have to go far
Unless you wanna show
Me a lovely place out of town
Where you feel most at ease
Well you are the one that I like
Always will be
I think it's time to let you know
The way I feel when you take hold
One single touch from you, I'm gone
Still got the rush when I'm alone
I think it is time I let you know
Take all of me, I will devote
You set me free, my body's yours
It feels the best when you're involved
I want you to take over control
Take over control
Take take take take over control
Oh oh oh, I want you to take over control
Plug it in and turn me on
I want you to take over control
Take over control
Take take take take over control
Oh oh oh, I want you to take over control
Plug it in and turn me on
Baby, baby, can't you see?
That I'm giving all of me
So, it's up to you now
We could let time pass away
I'll make an excuse to play
But, it's up to you now
Just wanna fulfill your needs
While you're taking over me
So, what do you want now?
Take a picture, make a show
'Cause nobody has to know
All the ways that we get down
I want you to take over control
Take over control
Take take take take over control
Oh oh oh, I want you to take over control
Plug it in and turn me on
Oh, oh whoa oh
Oh, oh whoa ooh oh
Plug it in and turn me on
Oh, oh whoa oh
Oh, oh whoa ooh oh
Plug it in and turn me on
I want you to take over control
Take over control
Take take take take over control
Oh oh oh, I want you to take over control
Plug it in and turn me on
Oh, oh whoa oh
Oh, oh whoa ooh oh
Plug it in and turn me on
Oh, oh whoa oh
Oh, oh whoa ooh oh
Plug it in and turn me on
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/afrojack/takeovercontrol.html
http://www.dailytunez.com/2010/07/afrojack-feat-eva-simons-take-over.html
I'm into this song. Now to find this in real life.
For a while now people have been encouraging me to "put myself out there." God, I don't even know what that means anymore. I mean, I go out pretty often so I technically am out there, but I've been told that I have a pretty tough exterior. I usually just focus on those around me and don't assert myself to inviting new people in. What am I a convenience store? I'm at my wit's end with this whole "perception" of me, but I guess it's better than being considered an easy pushover. I just don't get the whole song and dance of dating. This sh*t makes me dizzy. I've never been one to just go with it since I've always been the one to lead, so now I wonder, "What do I do exactly?"
There's been heavy debate over Match.com. Should I or shouldn't I? Sad thing is the only one arguing the "con" side is me. Votes are pretty unanimous to go for it, but the thing is I don't really know what it is I'm going for. Online has never been my strongest suit. Besides blogging, paying bills, and Facebook I'm rarely on it. I love face-to-face interaction like the guy I met at the bar even though it won't go anywhere. I just don't want to lead anyone on and frankly, I feel like it comes off that way with my whole profile visible to strangers. Plus, I'm not that comfortable with change. I know I'm not the type to walk up to a handsome stranger to strike up a conversation and I know rarely will this happen to me considering my initial first impressions. But...online? Has it really come down to this?
I know we live in this day and age. I know it's more common than uncommon. I know it won't hurt to try and to not always expect lies and to be open-minded and to let all this negative energy go. Blah, blah, blah... I know that even when I'm careful, caring, and cautious it doesn't necessarily come back ten-fold. OBVIOUSLY. But...and there goes that BIG BUT again... Am I ready for all of this?
I posted on my status update, "Wishing I could go back in time to date a man who knows how to be a REAL MAN" and boy, did I get a response! 37 comments later, I read how problems still existed in the past, how sometimes if you're expecting bad stuff to happen, they'll happen (how lovely) and my all time favorite, what will real men get from real women? To which my reply was, a woman they actually deserve. This ongoing debate didn't surprise me, but it did help me see more clearly that there's a "Scratch my back, I'll scratch yours" policy going on here. It's just that my whole point with this was to see if I could get my back scratched first. Come on! At least that and that ain't much. I just want someone to show me what they TRULY have to offer so that I can see if it even fits with me and mine before I show them in return. But this exchange has to be equal. Give and take. Compromise.
I want to experience being cared for. Not like taking care of the utility bills and putting food on the table type thing, but the sweet stuff like opening doors, making a plan, walking up to my doorstep with flowers and chocolates in hand to take me to a nice dinner and picking up the tab. The pursuit is intoxicating if done right by someone I actually want to do it. Ladies, we kicked ourselves in the foot with this equality sh*t because chivalry is dead. Romeo, Romeo where for art thou, Romeo? Nowadays, you're lucky if a guy is even considerate to check in, say "I love you" to you on the phone with his friends around, or tell a joke without making your relationship the punch line. Yet, the sweet ones aren't cute and the cute ones are d*cks! And if you get an ugly d*ck like most of what I had to deal with, well you could imagine my frustration. So, after this vent fest I will do what this song said. I'll give someone a chance to take over and hope they don't f@$k it all up! The hard part wouldn't be to deal with a potential mess, it would be to let it happen in order to see how well they'll be able to clean it up.
Lyrics:
Let's go take a ride in your car
I will take the passenger seat
Baby, we don't have to go far
Unless you wanna show
Me a lovely place out of town
Where you feel most at ease
Well you are the one that I like
Always will be
I think it's time to let you know
The way I feel when you take hold
One single touch from you, I'm gone
Still got the rush when I'm alone
I think it is time I let you know
Take all of me, I will devote
You set me free, my body's yours
It feels the best when you're involved
I want you to take over control
Take over control
Take take take take over control
Oh oh oh, I want you to take over control
Plug it in and turn me on
I want you to take over control
Take over control
Take take take take over control
Oh oh oh, I want you to take over control
Plug it in and turn me on
Baby, baby, can't you see?
That I'm giving all of me
So, it's up to you now
We could let time pass away
I'll make an excuse to play
But, it's up to you now
Just wanna fulfill your needs
While you're taking over me
So, what do you want now?
Take a picture, make a show
'Cause nobody has to know
All the ways that we get down
I want you to take over control
Take over control
Take take take take over control
Oh oh oh, I want you to take over control
Plug it in and turn me on
Oh, oh whoa oh
Oh, oh whoa ooh oh
Plug it in and turn me on
Oh, oh whoa oh
Oh, oh whoa ooh oh
Plug it in and turn me on
I want you to take over control
Take over control
Take take take take over control
Oh oh oh, I want you to take over control
Plug it in and turn me on
Oh, oh whoa oh
Oh, oh whoa ooh oh
Plug it in and turn me on
Oh, oh whoa oh
Oh, oh whoa ooh oh
Plug it in and turn me on
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/afrojack/takeovercontrol.html
http://www.dailytunez.com/2010/07/afrojack-feat-eva-simons-take-over.html
Comments
Post a Comment